I'm the nice fella

Krakow, Poland. Nov'05

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I'm the nice fella.
I'm the fella who listens,
the fella who you can have a conversation with, about books, movies, art, ...
I'm the moral support, the shoulder to cry on, the handkerchief to wipe the tears from your eyes.
The fella you call when you need a ride to the airport.
The fella who fixes your computer when you get that annoying blue screen.
The fella who helps you move.
I'm the fella that you call when no one else wants to go to see a concert or a movie and you don't want to go alone.
I'm the fella you cancel those plans with when something better comes along
It really sucks,
but I won't complain
I'm too nice!!!

Women, take a look ...

Pohoda Festival '07, Slovakia.

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Women, take a look at that guy you tell everything to!
Do you remember in "When Harry met Sally" and they were in the car driving, and talking about why men and women can't be friends, because men really just want to sleep with their women friends?
I find that men do become friends with women, because they are attracted to them, on some level.
I am going to admit that.
For the most part the women with whom i choose to socialize with platonically, i would probably have a romantic relationship with if the opportunity arose.
Which is why i believe i have discovered the back face to the rule -
Women only become friends with men they do not want to date.
By that i mean, women have male friends with whom they share things with on a very personal level, because they feel safe, they feel that this is not something that will be used in a relationship somehow.
I guess it’s part of the "nice guy" syndrome.
Of course, the nice guy isn't going to tell you this, so i will.
Ladies, if you have a single straight male friend, that you confide in, and he genuinely listens, and has helped you through issues (especially dating issues)...
HE LIKES YOU AND WANTS TO BE MORE THAN FRIENDS !!!
He doesn't feel he wants to risk the friendship tho, because having you as a friend, especially a friend who you confide in and trust in so much is more important to him, so much so that he probably avoid other possible relationships.
There, i spilled the beans.

Happy life.

Donibane Lohitzune'07 Frech Basque Country

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Incluso una vida feliz comporta cierta oscuridad y la palabra feliz perdería su sentido si no se viera compensada por cierta tristeza.

Carl Jung

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Even a happy life cannot be without a measure of darkness, and the word happy would lose its meaning if it were not balanced by sadness.

Carl Jung

Baskonia

Eskerrik asko Baskonia!! Zorionak!!

http://acbtv.acb.com/video/781

Real life?

Sidi Sâad, Tunisia'04.

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You choose real life.

Get a credit, buy an apartment, get a new car, get new furniture, get engaged, eventually marry her, have a baby or two, get fucked up at work, change your job, get a raise, work harder, forget that you have loved the women whom you have married, don’t tell your children how much you love them, never hug them, never bring them up, find a lover, fuck your lover twice a month, never again make love to your wife, get older, put on weight, have a mid-age crisis, buy a motorcycle, catch your oldest child drinking, see him/her with a cigarette, observe how your children’s life gets fucked up, never try to care, pay for your offspring’s collage, leave your wife for a thirty year old woman, get a divorce, cut the contact with the so called friends, make them all cry and hate you, think that they really cared, leave your young woman, get lonely, apologize to your children, never apologize to your woman, get lonely, start smoking and pretty hard drinking, get a cancer, cause your liver malfunction, get an effusion, eventually find yourself with a heart attack in the middle of the day at the street packed with people, no one helps you, you have never bothered to help any one, you die even though the emergency came, your life was miserable and pathetic.

Let’s get back to the beginning, answer again: Do you still want to choose real life?


Written by: Jacek Kibiłda Pl

Split up!

Barna (Barcelona), Catalunya. July'07

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I know that i'm not who to talk about love, and even less about relantionships, but...

I have been shocked!!!

Is not a surprise shock! Is just ... i can not believe that it finally happened!!!

Yes, you are right, i was expecting their split up, time and time ago, but for any reason ... (someone) was not brave enough like to take this step.

What has changed now? ... weird!

It remind me when i was younger; Yes, i was young, and yes, also i knew what was the love, or at least i thought so!!!

Somehow i saw myself reflected on this couple!

However, good luck to both of you, on the new relationship or on the way starting a new one, if u feel as fighting for it, ... ... ..., just i'm thinking i was not able, sad but true!!!

So take it easy!